The subject of love between individuals of opposite sex has been debated and discussed numerous times but it still remains the most interesting subject.
Love as I define is a mere attraction between the people of opposite sex (in normal cases) caused by their social, physical and biological needs. And the lovers change with time depending among other things upon the proximity.
Have you ever wondered if you were the only men or women available on a deserted island with the person you admire the most, what would be your fate? Nothing but you would be having all that you always dreamt of with the same person. But the same is also applicable in case of a person you hate the most. Because what is important is not what you want but what is available.
Some people would argue that like minded people come together but my argument is that how do you find a like minded person in the same class or same colony or same company. It’s because we always select the one that is closest and easily available. And also how is it possible that the most beautiful girl of the class is found to be the most like minded girl by many of her class mates and vice versa.
If love was not because of proximity those who are away from their girlfriends/ boyfriends would not live in a constant fear of getting dumped, because there is always a better option available.
Love has more to do with loss of logical ability of a person than with anything else. Loss is more for the people who fall in love at first sight. They do more insane things than the sane ones. For example they would wow to leave the whole world to gain the confidence of that one person. Suddenly that one person means more to them than anything else. A Hindu boy who hardly goes to the temple would go to a church; those who don’t have bikes buy them and those who do, upgrade their status to car of course depending upon the choice of their partners. In the attempt to impress a special individual hobbies are changed and new habits are cultivated. They would talk over phone full night skipping sleep and stand in sun or in rain to get a glimpse of their loved ones missing everything.
For that one person they would wow to leave their parents who have been by their side since their birth.
In some cases you would be used and reused before you realise this fact.
After a brief period of silliness and craziness everyone comes back to terms with reality.
But most people come out of such illusions and smile at their frivolousness later in their lives.
There is nothing special about love, it just another phenomenon happening to everyone at a particular age and for those who have not been able to marry their loved ones don’t worry because your spouse would act in the same way and perform exactly the same things as your lost lover.
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